Received as one of those circular emails:
Subject: Sisters )
A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day
drinking iced tea and visiting with her mother. As
they talked about life about marriage about the
responsibilities of life and the obligations of
adulthood the mother clinked the ice cubes in her
glass thoughtfully and turned a clear sober glance
upon her daughter.
‘Don’t forget your sisters’ she advised swirling
the tea leaves to the bottom of her glass. ‘They’ll
be more important as you get older. No matter how
much you love your husband no matter how much you
love the children you may have you are still going
to need sisters.. Remember to go places with them now
and then; do things with them.’
‘Remember that ‘sisters’ means ALL the women.
your girlfriends your daughters and all your othe
women relatives too. ‘You’ll need other women. Women
always do.’
What a funny piece of advice!’ the young woman
thought. Haven’t I just gotten married?
Haven’t I just joined the couple-world? I’m now a
married woman for goodness sake! A grownup! Surely
my husband and the family we may start will be all I
need to make my life worthwhile!’
But she listened to her mother. She kept contact
with her sisters and made more women friends each
year. As the years tumbled by one after another
she gradually came to understand that her mother really
knew what she was talking about. As time and nature
work their changes and their mysteries upon a woman
sisters are the mainstays of her life.
After more than 50 years of living in this world
here is what I’ve learned:
THIS SAYS IT ALL:
Time passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Jobs come and go.
Love waxes and wanes.
Men don’t do what they’re supposed to do.
Hearts break.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Careers end.
BUT………
Sisters are there no matter how much time and how
many miles are
between you. A girl friend is never farther away
than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you
have to walk it by yourself the women in your life
will be on the valley’s rim cheering you on
praying for you pulling for you intervening on
your behalf and waiting with open arms at the
valley’s end.
Sometimes they will even break the rules and walk
beside you….Or come in and carry you out.
Girlfriends daughters granddaughters
daughters-in-law sisters sisters-in-law Mothers
Grandmothers aunties nieces cousins and extended
family: all bless our life!
The world wouldn’t be the same without women and
neither would I. When we began this adventure called
womanhood we had no idea of the incredible joys or
sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much we
would need each other.
Every day we need each other still.